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The more memory you have the less you will be happy. The more you relive the past the less you will live today. The more you correct the world the less you will see corrections. There are three aspects. Nature, Maya and Money. Nature is composed of five elements. Maya is composed of five विकार vices like anger, lust, greed, etc., Money is the object.  Maya causes corruption in your nature, both within and outside. You blame money.  Can money be the cause of happiness or unhappiness?  Money is the instrument. If you play well you will produce soothing rhythms. If you are anxious you will break strings. Can money influence your feeling? Can money help you with your mental strength? Can money create courage, faith, love?  How you feel is how you think?  Your thoughts are pure, your feelings are pure.  Your thoughts are reckless, you feel chaos.  In reality you are not performing any action. You are dull, lethargic.  Your mind is racing. Your...

Do situations throw you left and right? Do you treat every situation as tsunami? You become and let it overwhelm you. Did you know that contentment leads to stability? Stability builds a protection layer around you. This stability allows you to witness situations as puppet shows. This stability allows you to impart positive assurance in your surroundings. It gives hope and support to your spouse, children, neighbors, colleagues and bosses. Stability is your energy state. If there is noise in your surroundings. If there is dissatisfaction, discontentment you will be engulfed in a tsunami of negative emotions. If your level of energy is lower than your surroundings then you will be swept away, blown apart and become hundred broken glass pieces. Your remaining life will be left for gathering the glass pieces. But if you are protected then you will nullify the chaos. You will bring stability around you. Your contentment will survive. How do I get stabi...

Anger is needed to get work done. You shout on the cook and he makes better food tomorrow. You show aggression to the pizza delivery boy and he waives off the cost of pizza. You honk madly at the car in front of you and he moves aside. You shout at your kid and he starts to study. You express dissatisfaction at your staff and their future delivery improves. You have seen it since childhood. You have responded to it. When people are angry around you only then you do work. You have achieved the honor of glorying anger as a tool to get work done. Now, Can you change your belief system to "Love is needed to get work done." You will be smashed with withdrawal symptoms. You will feel an irresistible desire to scream. This is not how it is done. People around you will not care about your soft manners. They can ignore you. They will not accept you as their boss, spouse,father,child. You will lose your relationship. Do you feel the grip of fear yet? If I change my belief ...

Who is responsible for your misery? Who is to blame for your pain? How has been your journey of life? Are you holding on to something you know for sure will leave you? It was never yours to begin with. Do you have the knowledge that the things you hold tight is in reality loose sand? If you knew there was so much pain would you have liked to be a bird instead. Fly and be free. A whale. Swim and simply drift. As humans why do we get attached to something superior or inferior to us. Ego is always higher and lower than you really are. It is never in your line of sight. What is your identity? Your name. Your parents have given to you. A acquired assets. Your married status. Your spouse. Your degree. Your school/college. Your designation. Your profession. Your neighbors. Your society. What will you do to clean this mess people call stress? Is it something that can be easily swept away? Is it something acquired? Is it something that belongs to you? Is it a foreign object tha...

आत्मा does exercise its power. It instructs the mind to create thought. Then intellect creates visualization of the thought and body experiences. आत्मा  मन के द्वारा विचार प्रकट करती है, बुद्धि के द्वारा हम विचारो को देखतें है और फिर शरीर उनकी अनुभूति करता है.  विचार, देखो, अनुभूति | Thoughts, visuals, experience  Imagine you think about your child. The image of your child comes along with thousands of related memories. Now, suddenly if the thought of your mother comes before the "visuals" of child and related memories come. Your visual will get shifted to your mother.  How many memories and visuals do you have of परमात्मा/ God? Now, when the thought of lord comes, how long will it sustain? There is hardly any related content to support the thought and then you move on to next one. The next thought is from corporeal world, more physical, more can be seen, more can be touched/smelled kind. You hang on to it for dear life as reality.  That is why Brahmakumari...

Let be.Let go. Let your sorroundings be the way they are. Do not interfere in others life. Interfere in yours, if you really cannot live without it. Let go of your attachments at physical level and reach out to them at soul consciousness level. With body you limit your reach and depth in relationships. With soul, there are no boundaries, there is no end. It's boundless,pure and enormous. Do not control others, sorroundings or situations. You will be led to frustrations. You are not here to change the world, control the world. Can you influence by shouting? Influence happens. You cannot enforce it. You will wonder "Why does not my child listen to me anymore?". Think of the moment when she started to drift away and reduced sharing. As kids, we share everything with parents. Its a beautiful exchange. But as you grow parents impose the right way and my way. You say "I will find my way". And then one day there is surprise for everyone. Drugs/Murder/Suicide/Menta...

कम बोलो, मीठा बोलो, धीरे बोलो Can you do the above for a few days? See if your thoughts slow down the rampage. Observe the change. It does not mean that you have to suffocate yourself if you have a strong urge to speak. Do not muffle. Shuffle with the experiment for few days and see. See if you can collect wasteful chatter that you were spilling out in anxiety/anticipation. Drink the words. People will not fritter away when you don's speak. Anyways, how many days you have for this tongue to unleash? Do not assume that by speaking you are helping others. Essential talk is must and is good for relations building. Wasteful talk is loss of energy. Conserve. Everybody here is for themselves. Its not selfish but true fact of living. You may have assumed that you are doing this for that or them. But deep within, its your desires that are getting fulfilled. Your destiny is in your hands. Again? Your mind goes out and tries to hang on to outside events and people, hoping they will...

Chanting will divert your mind and will keep it engaged till the time you chant. You will receive positive energy that the sound brings, words like ॐ are very powerful energizer. What happens once chanting stops and you come back to the world, your कर्म क्षेत्र? प्राणायाम is also good for the physical body. It will bring peace to the body when you are doing it. The peace will be at peak in the beginning. Its a surprise to the mind, it does not like thoughts stream to slow but when it does you gain the benefits. What happens say after a week or a month? Your mind gets used to it. It starts to wonder again, forget about the day, in the morning too when you are doing body योग और प्राणायाम. Mind gets bored with routine, very easily.  Relationships go through multiple phases and essentially are of four types.  परिचय -  Lets say you want to organize a birthday party for your kid. You will have to make efforts to remember all those whom you want to invite. You will be worr...

Who are you? A sparkling dot of light called as soul or आत्मा Who is your father? Another sparkling point of light called as supreme soul or परमात्मा Where does he stay? Beyond space and time in a place which is full of unconditional love, silence, and peace. A place of reddish brown light? What is basis of your relationship with HIM? Love not fear. How can a soul immersed in ocean of love punish you/ become angry with you? Its HIS nature to be loving and he ONLY gives unconditional love. The ONLY one in whole universe where love comes with no expectations attached. Who claim fear as basis of relationship? The one who wants to exploit your fragile state of being. His only GOAL is for you to KNOW YOURSELF and come back to your TRUE NATURE. No amount of stones, rituals will happen as they are always external to your state of being. Where is your home? It is same place as of your father/परमात्मा. Why do you come on this physical world? This is our workplace/कर्म क्षे...