Moments so Far ...

All marriages have good and bad patches. An young AOL devotee from Mumbai is doing AMC (Advanced meditation course with shakti kriya) in presence of Gurudev. He had this concern. My parents have been married for 25 years now. When I am with father I feel he is right. When I am with mother I feel she is right. But they still keep fighting and are still not able to maintain harmonious relationship.  To this Gurudev replied Let them continue the way they are. Be totally with each of them. Do not overdo to change them, unless ofcourse the fight is beyond control. Only then you use your strength to stand in between them. They have continues like this and probably will for another 20-25 years. Don't loose your peace on their marriage. Let me tell you about a man who kept fighting with his wife. When asked "Why he fought so much with his wife" he replied "If I have to love somebody and fight with somebody else then it will be all the more challenging.So I am bett...

Image via Wikipedia She is 34. She looks like 54. You cannot get thinner than her. She is bare bones. She is household help. We mostly call her "काम वाली बाई "or "अम्मा " or "Aunty". She works in an apartment complex and lives nearby in a small house. She has raised two kids and helped them with education . Now they are young adults on verge of employment. She does work in three houses. She takes care of one of the house for the whole day. She has been doing it for the last three-four years. She has work ethics, is honest, does not demand a pay hike nor better working condition. She does not complaint about excess workload. She does her work, efficiently and regularly, everyday of her life. She simple takes what is given. She does not expect more, nor in words nor through indirect actions. She will come to your house at 8, 10, 12 and 18:00 to check if you are there in case you go out anywhere during the day. She is a true believer and has complete fa...