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inFluencing a child

How adults can create a impressions on the child and corrupt her belief system? Suppose your child has got a good friend and it her first day of nursery school. Her peer keeps chanting about the crowded van in which they travelled and how the ride was bumpy and fun. Imagine the fun in 4-8 years old jostling for space in a overcrowded van. But since it is presented as fun and the feeling is further enforced by the peer mother who says that your daughter will like to go with her child and both will have fun too in van in each other company. When you come into picture she tries to influence your decision too by quoting the cost per month and how cheap it is. The mother is also brought into the game thinking its fun and sportingly participates. You come into picture and try to assert that it is not safe for nursery going kids to travel in vans that are overcrowded and managed by single driver whose morality is not tested and who need to drag atleast 10 kids to his van and drop them at thei...

speak up

why is it difficult to speak up? why is it difficult to be assertive? Why do we consider Indians to be safe player who worry a lot about maintaining and upkeeping of relationship and mostly fearig the consequences that may have a negative impact on their relationship according to their point of view. It is a perception that is negative. It is the perception that asking questions is bad. It is the belief system that puts heiarchy as supreme and forces an assumption that people senior have to be respected and listened to despite their ideas. I am only asking you to question the ideas if that donot make sense to you. Do not question the originator of the idea, he is beyond your circle of influence. The action and the questions are in your circle of influence. Your thought process and articulation strategy is exclusive to you. No one can replicate it. You can develop it or demolish it. It's your discretion. Your conviction should give you courage. Your courage should overcome your fear...

mush musings

I say "office जाना जरूरी है " she says "why" i say " तन्ख्वा चयिये ना, इस लिए " she says "यह तन्ख्वा कौन है " mom she and i are at play ground with small slides etc for kids she says "be careful and do it slowly नहीं तो झूला टूट जाएगा " i say " it will not break because you are lightweight" she says " are you dark weight" शीखा मौसी तो थाली मैं हाथ धोती हैं, मैंने कहा था उनसे कि नहीं धो she wants to go out to play but does not want to eat food. ma my stomach is paining i--> then we will not able to take you because anyway your stomach is paining she--> मैं तो मजाक कर रही थी हूँ यह हूँ क्या होता , बोलो हाँ या ना did you know that obedience is derived from obediere which means "to listen thoroughly"

Death and mud

mind tries to reflect upon the power of death and trivializes mundane life Death and mud Wednesday, May 30, 2007 12:19 PM   After the last breath is released only body remains. The breath is given back to the winds. The body is burnt and the water goes into the clouds through the fire that facilitates burning. The remains are mixed with the soil and are offered to the river to meet the oceans.   Can you sense that energy when these elements interact with you in your surroundings? The air you breath, the water you drink , the soil on which you walk and the sun that gives energy. They mix and form and give birth and then they disintegrate and are returned back to nature. And it happens with everyone. No one is spared death. It is a certainty and the only certainty. Rest all comes and goes but death persists. The death is release of energy in environment that you can subscribe to and build on.   When everyone is mud then why do we have opinions? If you h...

मुश नानाजी और internet

अभी मैं मुश्कान के नानाजी को इन्टरनेट कि खुबियोँ के बारे मैं बता रह हूँ। झाँसी का नक़्शा भी दिखाया और बताया कि एसे हिंदी मैं भी टाईप कर सकते हैं। और आजकल समाचार भी हिंदी मैं देख सकते हैं। अभी हम क्रिकेट के बारे मैं विचार विमर्श कर रहे थे और परेशां थे कि दोनो ओपनिंग बल्लेबाज चोट के करना आराम करने क्यूँ चले गए। आज शाम के उन्हें कर्नाटक एक्सप्रेस से वापिश जाना हैं

from malu, my college mate

My current strengths are in operations/execution and most notably in team building and technology management. Given an opportunity I am able to break it up into manageable pieces and assign it and empower people to deliver on time. I am not averse to research during analysis phase. The weakness is in terms of specialization in technology but the strength is no technology is daunting or causes fear of embracement. I have personally participated in projects that have scaled to monolith size and also to college type experiments where in the size is small but turnaround time is minimal. The weaknesses are in sales, marketing ,finance, customer and social network management. How to sell to customer who will bluntly ask you " what is the specific solution that you have for me? I need to get more exposure to customers who can stump me and I need to learn to respond appropriately. Build Case Study I need to build a convincing case study for successful product lifecycle with appropriate re...